Do not take things for granted!!

I hate people that take things for granted. You give, they take. It's like you're obliged to give them and they will just take it without appreciating it. I do not know how long more I can stand that kind of bloody attitude.


To be more precise, i hate her!!!

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How would you feel when people are just so refused to talk(walk) to(with) you as if you are a monster? Do I look like I have big fat claws and long sharp teeth that people are so afraid to talk to me, as if I'm an extinct dinosaur found in a city, which is ready to attack at any time? How would you feel when someone that you know so well suddenly go offline when you're up on msn. Shit. I'm dumbfounded.

Do we leave our manners at home when we hit the road?

Driving, then and now is always so different that we have always forgotten the rules that is set to be obeyed. It was so coincident that one day, i got to read this piece of article from the newspaper and it came out to be so true.. Thanks to the author. =)

" We always say rules are made to be broken. Broken they must be, but they must be made first. We see list of rules at swimming pools, gyms, schools, parking lots; there are also the unwritten rules in the office.

There are the big rules that govern the country to keep peace and security. And, of course, there are the traffic rules; here I wish to vent my feelings.

Remember the good old days-if you are of the same vintage as me-when we went behind the wheels of a Morris Minor to take our driving lessons?

You don't see these old faithfuls on the city roads anymore because they have long been put to pasture. But in my day, they were crawling all over Kuala Lumpur and other cities in the country.

One of the most important things we learnt from our stern instructors was to use the hand signals-every time you wanted to turn to the left, you had to stretch your right hand out os the window and make several circular movements to indicate your intention. And when you wanted to turn to the right, you just stretched out your hand. Of course, you also needed to wave your hand up and down to indicate that you were slowing down to a stop.

The cars had no air-conditioning and the windows had to be wound down to keep the cars ventilated. It also made it possible for us to do the hand signals when required. Besides, cars in those days were not equipped with signal lights, so all drivers had to obey the traffic rules on hand signals.

Now, let's consider the modern-day driving on the highways of Kuala Lumpur or Petaling Jaya, where traffic congestion is the norm and road courtesy is virtually non-existent.How do you survive today's horrendous traffic conditions when thousands of cars pack the roads fighting for space to get ahead?

Rule No1: Just forget about turn signal lights, period. Why? Because nobody would bother to acknowledge those signals. Even with the indicator light on, cars zoom past as if to deliberately block us from turning. Seldom do we see people slowing down to allow you to turn, whether to the left or to the right. It is all about being kiasu: why should we slow down, why should let you get ahead?

Rule No2: Forget about overtaking only from the right. Nowadays, cars-and motorcycles-overtake from all sides as long as there is space to squeeze through. So, while you are on teh road, you need two big side mirrors to see clearly where the lorries, cars or bikes are coming from. And they don't give warning, either.

A horn is only useful when the space is too narrow to squeeze through. In that case, they will honk their horn to startle you. Rude? Politeness does not exist and was never taught by the instructor, I supposed.

It's frightening to drive in Kuala Lumpur, especially if you come from another city or town-or have just returned from a country where driving is certainlymore orderly. But soon you learn to be one of them to survive. A Malaysian diplomat who returned from New Zealand once confessed to me that she did all the wrong things taht Malaysian drivers did on the road in New Zealand.

"It's a matter of, if you can't fight them, join them," she said as a matter of fact.

After I returned from Beijing, it took me a while to catch up. But I'm doing well, squeezing in and out of queues. Activating the turn signals is optional. Giving way is dependent on how big and formidable your car looks.

I don't even bother about the Mat Rempit. They can do whatever they want with their machines and their lives.

I'm mean and self-centered. To all the road users who happen to share the same road and have been inconvenienced by my driving, my apologies."

I personally SO agree with his point of view. On top of all of that, Malaysian drivers are just so creative. They can create an extra parking lot even though there is none. Now you see how the behaviours of the drivers vary when they are on the road. Ever wondered whether you are one of them?